{"id":157,"date":"2023-04-01T14:29:26","date_gmt":"2023-04-01T14:29:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/?p=157"},"modified":"2023-04-16T13:42:20","modified_gmt":"2023-04-16T13:42:20","slug":"party-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/2023\/04\/01\/party-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Party time"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Is there anything I can write down on a sunny afternoon, sitting in the train on my way back from a morning&#8217;s work in Suzhou? Everything seems predictable, peaceful and calm. The people I meet along the way walk quietly, look relaxed at their phones, wait patiently in line for a ticket for the bus or train.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s a long way home today, straight through Suzhou, using all public transportation available. Bus, first. Then subway. Then the train. After my arrival in Shanghai, I will take the subway home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Two guys are sitting next to me. One is young, a tall stature, cheerful face. The other is a bit older,  a bit on the skinny side. He also speaks more. His brown teeth and dusty smell betray a harmonious symbiosis with cigarettes. His taller neighbor shows no signs of such a close relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They know each other well and I expect them to be colleagues. The profession they practice is less easy to guess. Could be IT, trade, sales. Fintech. Everything is possible, really.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is nothing I can be certain of anyway. All I catch is the smoker&#8217;s question to his big friend: &#8220;So, where are you going now?&#8221; When they glance in my direction, they comment on my typing &#8211; which is in Dutch- and we laugh a bit. I decline the request to exchange contacts, everyone returns to their phones with a smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The return journey today, in the middle of the day, is the last one in the two weeks in which I have been able to brighten up Emme&#8217;s afternoons. I am jealous of our nanny Meixia&#8217;s work and hope we can end it with a party today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Written on May 10, 2019<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is there anything I can write down on a sunny afternoon, sitting in the train on my way back from a morning&#8217;s work in Suzhou? Everything seems predictable, peaceful and calm. The people I meet along the way walk quietly, look relaxed at their phones, wait patiently in line for a ticket for the bus&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-157","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-orangebooklet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=157"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":158,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157\/revisions\/158"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=157"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=157"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=157"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}