{"id":133,"date":"2023-03-24T07:29:51","date_gmt":"2023-03-24T07:29:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/?p=133"},"modified":"2023-03-24T07:29:51","modified_gmt":"2023-03-24T07:29:51","slug":"mea-culpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/2023\/03\/24\/mea-culpa\/","title":{"rendered":"Mea culpa"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Sarcasm seems rare here. Quite difficult to grasp if you do not master a language well. Where to start? With self-mockery? From my point of view, that seems a safe bet. By highlighting a flaw in your own self-image, you create a moment of weakness, in other words, accessibility. Someone who realizes this reacts tactically and therefore would not see it as an invitation to destroy that self-image once and for all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, sarcasm is not an island. Humor cannot be put in boxes. In that respect it is like a freight train: if 1 wagon tips over, nothing will continue and nothing will arrive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My mind goes wild here when I catch something that does have a sarcastic undertone. Did he say that? Is he allowed to say that? Which committee has agreed here? What if this goes viral? Will heads roll?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes \u2013 the latter \u2013 yes. A girl, a Key Opinion Leader, sang the Chinese national anthem in the wrong way. She was jailed for a few days. On the other hand, a presenter made a joke on TV about the fact that in China everyone always muscles in. Nice self-reflection, I thought, but also carefully packaged criticism = self-respect with a touch of sarcasm? The audience laughs. One minute later, the same presenter receives a handout and starts to read out commercials aloud. The irony escapes many.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I fantasize about setting up a YouTube channel called \u201cHumor from China\u201d. Going out on the street and asking people strange questions. \u201cWhat <em>does<\/em> Xi Jinping actually think?\u201d \u201cWhat grade would you give the government?\u201d Or to children: &#8220;Why would you study so hard if everything you have to do later is checking your phone the whole day?&#8221; And to all answers nod seriously while shouting \u201cSoo desu ne!!!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whence this twisted rancor? Humor is fun, but not easy. On a day when I suddenly lash out against my beautiful and sweet daughter, it is comfortable to disguise my self-image, hush up self-criticism, and avoid self-deprecation, for fear of it getting too serious. I understand the reluctance, but only temporarily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Written on March 5, 2019<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sarcasm seems rare here. Quite difficult to grasp if you do not master a language well. Where to start? With self-mockery? From my point of view, that seems a safe bet. By highlighting a flaw in your own self-image, you create a moment of weakness, in other words, accessibility. Someone who realizes this reacts tactically&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-133","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-orangebooklet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=133"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":134,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133\/revisions\/134"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stories.squaredant.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}